When puzzling over what question to ask a Ukrainian girl in Kiev to get her interested, don't re-invent the wheel. Everything has already been invented for you. Write an opener. An opener is the first phrase of communication that makes an impression. Something that hooks her instincts, evokes emotion, grabs her attention, makes you stand out from the crowd of losers who sit around the clock on Facebook, Instagram, TikTok and dating sites with no chance of sex. Provocation is what will force her to respond to you. On a Ukrainian dating site, provocation serves as a catalyst for communication. Refrain from rudeness and vulgarity. Here are examples, take it and use it. "I want to ask you an intimate question...". Yes, she'll tense up, but her attention is already on you. Go on, "Do you happen to work in a creative environment - among designers, artists, photographers?" The young lady will be surprised, relaxed, and probably ask what's so intimate about it. "Oh, come on. It's a personal question. And personal is always intimate territory." Not only have you provoked her reaction and emotion at the start, but you've earned a reputation for being "different."